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Sexual Abuse

When you have been used, let down and betrayed by someone close to you, you
expect other people to behave in a similar way. Having been badly hurt, it is
really natural to try to protect yourself from ever being hurt again. It is likely
you do this by not letting people get close to you. The more fragile and hurt you
feel on the inside the tougher you will behave on the outside.

• You may be distant with people – polite but cool
• You may keep yourself to yourself
• You will have trouble when people touch you – especially some people

Mistrusting people can work as protection. It can also mean you miss out on
getting fun, warmth, closeness and caring.

You can find out more by reading sexual abuse (PDF 76Kb)